Before I had my second child, my knowledge of cloth diapers was limited to icky rubber pants, sharp diaper pins, and leaks. Not appealing.
I decided to look around for cloth diaper options when I was pregnant with my second son. I really liked what I saw. But it was SO confusing. There are now so many more options!
Thankfully, I found a local store that stocked a variety of cloth diapers and all of the accessories. I prefer to touch and feel things before I buy, so this was great. There was even a doll to practice on! After about an hour of discussion, we walked away with a good portion of what we needed.
Please keep in mind there are about a zillion options out there, but this is what we use, and our routine.
Flip Diaper System: We have 6 outers, and 2 dozen Stay-Dry microfiber liners. The liners fit perfectly in a DVD storage basket that slides right into our changing table.

Bummis: The Flips were a little too big for our 7 pound baby, so we did stop by and purchase a Bummis newborn pack. We only used it about 2 weeks, but at less than $30, it was comparable or cheaper than disposables. We also have 2 Bummis covers, which I don’t think are as nice as the Flips. We also received a teeny tiny red Bummis so if he came in time for Christmas (he didn’t) he would have appropriate attire (thanks GG!). It was awful darn cute anyway!

Wet Bag: We have the Bummis wet bag. I don’t remember if this was the cheapest, or only option that our store had. But it’s nice, it works.
Sprayer: I very highly recommend this. I have the BumGenius one. Saves on the yuck factor big time. I’ve washed the diapers out by hand while we were staying at my mom’s, and there’s no comparison!
Diaper Pail: I bought a garbage can with a flip up/latch, lid. It’s broken already and doesn’t close most of the time (so I weigh it down to keep it shut). Save yourself the trouble and just get a plain one. I line mine with an old pillowcase, or a laundry bag. I’m still toying with open or closed as the weather gets warmer.
Washing: I have a Cabrio HE washer. I use Norwex laundry detergent. I do a soak with about 1/4 t. of detergent on cold, heavy soil. Then I run a Heavy Duty cycle, with heavy soil, hot/cold wash, and an extra rinse, using 1/4 t. of detergent. I have only stripped the diapers once with bleach and that was when I was still getting the hang of getting the stains out.
Drying: I normally air dry the diapers. I have found that the best way to get stains and any musty smell out is to sun them, so I hang them outside if I can. I also have a small indoor rack that we use if the weather is poor. If I am in a pinch, I will dry them in the dryer, but I prefer not to do this because it sets stains. The diapers take longer than normal clothes because they are thick microfiber. I wash every 3-4 days. I probably wouldn’t need to wash that often, but they tend to stink a little, and I try to wash when I have about 6 diapers left so that the the ones I washed have plenty of time to dry before we need them.

Wipes: I haven’t bought any disposables yet! I love my re-usable wipes. We tried flannel, receiving blankets and old t-shirts cut into squares. The flannel and receiving blankets both left strings on the diapers, and deteriorated quickly. T-shirts win out by far. I confiscated one of my hubby’s armpit stained shirts, and used my rotary cutter to salvage the good parts. No sewing needed. We toss the wipes in with the diapers, hang them just the same. The I use a solution of about 3 drops of baby soap to 1.5 cups of water in a spray bottle as “butt wash”.
Cost: I think our total was less than $300.00. My mother and grandmother were very generous, and purchased about a third of that between the two of them. I anticipate that I will be able to re-use the diapers either on a 3rd child, my sisters future child(ren), or get a reasonable amount for re-sale. Even if I don’t, I still am money ahead.